We need to stop giving men false expectations.
Not all of them are princes
Not every man can make an event a fairytale
Not all of them will cry
Not all of them will understand you perfectly
They have flaws… why?
Because they are human beings
They’ll make mistakes
They’re not characters from movies
They are real people with real flaws and that’s ok because everyone has flaws.
He may not give you flowers or apologize when the time seems right
But know he still cares and loves you in his own way
He loves you like no other man would
He shows his love differently than people say he should
You may be missing the subtle things that make him special
Don’t look for what society says you should look for
Society is just striving for what it thinks is right and what feels good.
Know what you want and wait patiently.
Having false expectations fail and hurt every time.
Know that the one for you will mess up and make mistakes, accept that because you will make mistakes too.
Life isn’t perfect nor are people but it’s a blessing to have someone to live life with.
You may not be able to lean on him all the time, for he will struggle and fall too.
Just be there, that’s all you can do
Even when he’s not there for you know that he just needs time and during that time know he is still thinking about you and he cares.
Love isn’t a fairytale
It is very complicated
Two different people with different thoughts and feelings coming together to make things harmonious will not always go smoothly.
There will be disagreements and pain but it will only make both of you stronger and mature in the end
Just agree to never leave
Even when things get so difficult and you’re not sure you can bear it
Remember back when you fell for each other, why you chose him, and why you decided to continue sharing your life with him.
Be patient, lashing out in anger will only make things worse. Know that your love for him is more powerful than you think. None of it will go to waste. You will reap what you sow.
You’re precious and he knows it. He may forget how precious you are at times but he still thinks you are amazing and he’ll always be grateful you chose to be a part of his life.